Meredith Grey is Christina’s person.. And I so get it.. Your
go to person.. The one who listens through whatever nonsense you want to say..
and helps you do all the nonsense you do.. and gives you a sound hearing after
all the nonsense you did.. Like Christina says, When I murder someone, Meredith
is the one I’ll call to help drag the body across the hall.. They help you out
of everything, or at least try to.. or punch the shit out of you… And I'm glad
that I have not one but many “persons” in my life.
They tell you everything… what you want to hear, what you don’t
want to hear.. why your life sucks, why you should try and get out of the mess you’ve
created upon yourself… They care what you think, they care what you don’t think,
They see your world through those rose
tinted glasses you try to show them.. they then rip off those glasses from your
face to help you see reality… Reality. Its so much more interesting than living
happily ever after…
A survey says, when it comes to your close friends, you lose
about half and replace them with new ones after about seven years. You (all
my persons) I hope will remain my close friend even after those 7 years.. and
to you who have survived 7 years with me, You know about the other survey/ Fact
- If a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, psychologists say it will last a
lifetime. So sadly you are stuck with me for this lifetime.. and though I’m the
psycho narcissist in our friendship, you
would have got a few opportunities to vent your heart out to me too, (I
believe, Cuz I don’t particularly remember) And yes I’m gonna hold on to the 7
year thing to blackmail you and make you attend every single movie, every
single get together and every single important/ non important event in my life/
your life…
And to those who I’ve met recently and have grown close to,
Our friendship doesn’t need a 7 year cycle to test the dumb survey.. the time
we spent together, the time we talk, the time we spend bitching about life,
seniors (the one particularly) and the time we spend working on the same client
(or not) has been in fact (maybe) longer than the 7 years in the survey(in the
one and half years I know you guys) So that proves you guys are stuck with me
too J
To all my persons out there, it doesn't matter whether I speak
to you everyday or not.. or every week or not.. just remember that the time I
spend with you is fully devoted to you.. and anytime you need me to be your
person, I'm just a thought away.. And I hope that you never throw in the towel
on me.. I know I'm a lost cause, and I will always do whatever I want, although I
ask you for opinions. I will seldom listen to you because its my inherent nature to
ask people for their perceptions and do what is already pre decided by me. And I Love it that you guys have such varied,
colourful and right opinions…And whenever you think I've forgotten you, I've not.. Your as much a part of me as I am a part of your thoughts... Life may try to keep us apart but we can always start off right where we stopped the last time.. how many ever months later they may be...
And how do you recognise how a person becomes your person? Its that moment when you see them in a crowded mall/ crowded train station and dont feel anything.. excited, bored nothing.. cuz its like they are always there at the back/ front of your mind and seeing them in person is just an extension of that..
And how do you recognise how a person becomes your person? Its that moment when you see them in a crowded mall/ crowded train station and dont feel anything.. excited, bored nothing.. cuz its like they are always there at the back/ front of your mind and seeing them in person is just an extension of that..
P.S I hope I'm your person too.. or at least in the process of
being yours..
P.P.S I know my blog was to shift.. but I really suck at
trying to beautify the depressing wordpress layout.. so I'm not moving.
:-*
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